(Kind of pertinent quote from someone that you might meet tonight if you decide to come over.)

Despite the fact that many of you didn't ever know about my divorce, you helped me greatly. I'd been dating Megan for seven years before we were married, and I had in many ways formed my life around her. I felt I had two options; I could attempt to mold the rest of my life to fill a Megan-shaped hole, or I could change myself. I chose the latter.

This is from his journal entry today at:
http://www.livejournal.com/users/baronmind/234609.html?view=3695473#t3695473