i would say that even in the short time ive known you, you have physically changed quite a bit. its not necessarily a positive or a negative... it just is.

i think possibly the problem is that you cant let yourself enjoy the change because it somehow feels like you are turning your back on your rabid pro-fatness.

but in as much as you can say its not a bad thing to be fat, and being fat doesnt mean you are less healthy, the same is true for any shape you take on, bigger or smaller or whatever.

it really doesnt matter what shape you are... if a guy can be a feminist, then you can still be as raging a fat radical no matter how much you shrink.