I'm feeling motivated by you. I had a big think last night about my tendency to obsess over crushes that, honestly, I don't really know that well. I decided I don't really fear that the crush will not be interested in me - I fear losing the fantasy of that person. So, I've decide to face my fear. I just e-mailed a guy I've been crushing on for about 8 months and told him I have a bit of a crush on him.