See, I actually think that's a useful dialog with your imaginary self, there. Cause then you can choose to either accept that you have a preference of indeterminate origin that's in line with what others expect of women - or you can try to retrain yourself to a preference that doesn't enforce the shaving norm for other women/girls. It depends on how much fight you want to fight. I'd rather be aware of that than blissfully ignorant of the effect of my choices.